Goodbye to Life Of A Blogger

Some of you may have noticed a particular feature missing from my blog these last few weeks. The Life Of A Blogger meme has officially ended. Jessi at Novel Heartbeats has decided to stop running this meme, a decision I cannot help but agreeing with. You can read what she has to say here, but basically the interest has dwindled. My own posts have been rather lackluster for the past month or two of the meme. I couldn’t really muster up the enthusiasm for the recent topics as I could for the ones in the beginning and it’s a bit of a relief to not have to try to write a post about something I don’t have much to say about, if I’m being completely honest.

As this meme draws to a close, I find myself feeling sentimental. I have been doing that meme almost since the start of this blog. Jessi started it up just a few weeks after I made the decision to start blogging and I jumped on it. When you first start blogging, you look for things to help fill in your days and this meme was perfect thing for me. A day with the explicit excuse to discuss music or movies or whatever else prompted by the meme? Bring it on. But now it’s over and I’m a little saddened by that. I’ve been thinking about picking up another meme, but I seem to have enough content that I don’t need to do a new one. And some of them seem like a lot of work. Top Ten Tuesdays are so much effort and I don’t think I could ever narrow down a list of anything literary to a mere 10 items. Waiting On Wednesday is a possibility, but I just don’t know right now.

Regardless of all my ramblings, I want to thank Jessi for running a great meme. It was a wonderful year and a half and I truly enjoyed not only sharing my posts but reading everyone else’s. Scheduling posts for Thursdays will feel weird for months without this to fill that space!

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Life Of A Blogger #72

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Weekly feature created by Jessi at Novel Heartbeats to discuss one non-bookish topic per week. For more information about this feature click here

This week’s topic: Astrology

I’m a capricorn! I don’t really buy much into astrology, but the one constant thing said about capricons is that we are perfectionists and that is true. That need to re-do everything until it’s just so and you can deal with it going out into the world.

In Chinese Astrology, I am a dragon. Also, word of disclaimer with those stupid website that tell you you’re sign by your birth year, if you have a birthday in January or early February, it’s probably wrong. The Chinese new year starts in February, so you have to watch it. If you type 1989 into most of them, they tell you it is the year of the snake. That’s true, but January 1989 is still technically the year of the dragon. It’s been a long time since I looked into Chinese astrology, so I honestly don’t know what they say, but I think it’s pretty similar to the capricorn stuff.

What’s your sign? Let me know in the comments!

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Life Of A Blogger #71

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This week’s topic: Dreams (the sleeping kind)

I don’t dream a bunch, but lately the few I do have all revolve around the idea of babies. Me chasing babies, me being pregnant and terrified, and similar motifs. I think it’s because my husband has baby fever and I’m just not sure if I’m ready for that or not.

UPDATE: Except last night (and most likely tonight), when I have strange dreams about Carowinds. Last night, I dreamed that they were running the new roller coaster backwards and that some guy fell out while riding. Don’t worry, in dream land, it miraculously ended up in a pool and he was fine. I expect more like that tonight because tomorrow is the day I finally get to go and ride it, so it’s all that’s on my brain!

What about you? What are you’re dreams about? Let me know in the comments!

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Life Of A Blogger #70

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This week’s topic: Nature

I like nature….as long as the temperature is nice. If it gets too hot outside or too cold. When it’s pretty outside, I just want to go out an explore. There is a mountain pretty close to where I live that I like to hike when the weather allows. Unfortunately, I’m a lazy ass and it’s draining as hell to make it to the top, so I haven’t went in a very long time. Probably sometime last summer, if I had to guess, was the last time I went. Beyond that, sometimes it’s just nice to sit outside and enjoy the sunshine. I love the smell of grass and the of the sun on my face.

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Life Of A Blogger #69

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This week’s topic: Favorite quotes

“Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity: and I’m not sure about the universe.” -Albert Einstein

“I’m selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control, and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” -Marilyn Monroe

“Fairy Tales are more than true: not because they tell us that dragons exist, but because they tell us dragons can be beaten.” -Neil Gaiman

“The person, be it gentleman or lady, who has not pleasured in a good novel, must be intolerably stupid.” -Jane Austen

“Some people see things that are and ask, Why? Some people dream of things that never were and ask, Why not? Some people have to go to work and don’t have time for all that.” -George Carlin

“You can only be in a bad mood for so long before you have to face up to the fact that it isn’t a bad mood at all; it’s just your sucky personality.” -Megan McCafferty

“A person is smart. People are dumb, panicky dangerous animals and you know it. Fifteen hundred years ago everybody knew the Earth was the center of the universe. Five hundred years ago, everybody knew the Earth was flat, and fifteen minutes ago, you knew that humans were alone on this planet. Imagine what you’ll know tomorrow.” – Men In Black

“I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.” ― J.K. Rowling

“Sometimes you make choices in life and sometimes choices make you.” ― Gayle Forman

“Eleanor was right. She never looked nice. She looked like art, and art wasn’t supposed to look nice; it was supposed to make you feel something.” ― Rainbow Rowell

“Teachers, parents, guidance counselors… all of them are always pushing this crap about how it’s okay to be different, just be yourself. Don’t give in to peer pressure, blah, blah, blah. The truth is, it’s really only okay to be yourself if that self is within an accepted range of “normal.” You like soccer instead of basketball, Johnny? Well, okay, I guess, so long as you still like sports. What’s that, Susie, you want to wear the blue sweater instead of the red? You know we’re all about expressing individuality here… so long as it’s still a sweater.” ― Stacey Kade

“People worry about kids playing with guns, and teenagers watching violent videos; we are scared that some sort of culture of violence will take them over. Nobody worries about kids listening to thousands – literally thousands – of songs about broken hearts and rejection and pain and misery and loss.” ― Nick Hornby

I’m sure there are plenty more, but I can’t remember them. I’m one of those readers that gets so caught up in a novel, that I don’t notice a particularly meaningful sentence when I’m reading. I’m too focused on the story and what will happen next to spend time examining the prose. ::hides:: It’s horrible, I know, but that doesn’t make it any less true. Luckily for me, GoodReads has that nice quotes section that I can browse through when the mood strikes. What are some of your favorite quotes? Let me know in the comments!

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Life Of A Blogger #68

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This week’s topic: Freebie

I know I’ve already written an entire blog post about Carowinds, but apparently it wasn’t enough. You can read it here if you want the super detailed version. Basically, I love rollercoasters. I have only ever been to Carowinds because it’s my local park and I have no friends who are willing to road-trip it to visit other parks. They are either too terrified of rollercoasters to even set foot into an amusement park or are too broke to be able to afford it. My husband is a middle ground. He’ll go and he’ll ride the kiddie rides, but he won’t get on the big ones. I’m fine riding by myself, but I always feel bad that he is standing around waiting for me for hours while I wait in line. Anyway, I love Carowinds and this season is the most exciting yet! They open the brand new coaster, the Fury 325, and I cannot wait to ride it. It’s the “tallest, fastest giga-coaster” in the world, or so they claim. Either way, I’m dying to give it a try. I’m so desperate to ride it that I’m actually thinking about going on the Season Pass Preview night by myself just to get a taste.

Anyway, I love the park and rollercoasters in general. How do you feel about coasters? Let me know in the comments!

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Life Of A Blogger #67

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This week’s topic: Routines

I don’t have many routines. I keep trying to start to get myself into a new one, especially when I get home from work, but I can never get myself motivated. When I get home from work, I just wanna collapse into my recliner and read or work on my blog or just cruise the internets. I do have a morning routine and a lunch routine and I’ll lay them out for you here.

Morning:
This one just recently got better. My husband now has to go into work an hour earlier which means I don’t have to drag him out of bed because he must get up before I do. It’s a glorious feeling to lounge in bed under the warm covers while someone else has to drag themselves up and start their morning! Anyway, I get up sometime between 7:10 and 7:20, depending on how I feel. I let the dogs out, if my husband hasn’t already done that. I wash my face (or at least I do at the moment because I love the way my face feels after I use the special face wash I have, but it I’m running late, that’s the first thing I skip). I turn on whatever audiobook I’m currently listening to because I can really use all the reading time I can squeeze in. I kiss the husband good-bye because he has to leave no later than 7:30 to get to work by 8. Then I make myself a bowl of cereal (breakfast of champions!). At some point, I let the dogs back in. Annabelle will push her nose against the door, making it bang, if she wants in before I get around to letting them in myself. Once I finish my cereal, I’ll make sure the big dogs have food and water and I’ll move Chance’s food from the bedroom to the bathroom. I’ll open the blinds in both the bedroom and the bathroom so the bird and Chance (respectively) will have light throughout the morning. I put a potting training pad down in the bathroom because Chance is old and incontinent and I tired quickly of having to wipe up his piss every time I came home from anywhere. I have to tap the damn thing down because it won’t stay in place otherwise. It’s a hassle, but it’s better than carrying 20 additional towels to the laundromat every time I go. I brush my hair and teeth, put on deodorant and body spray (‘cuz I hate the smell of almost all perfumes….the give me headaches). I don’t really do anything with my hair except remove the tangles and I never put on makeup. It’s not that I’m oh so confident about how I look, it’s more that I’m more self-conscience with the makeup on. I never really learned to apply it properly and no matter how much I practice with it on the weekends, I always feel like I’m doing it wrong and don’t want to show up at work looking like that. After that, I put the rat Chance in the bathroom and shut the door. He has to be separated from the other dogs because Bach tries to eat him when I leave them together. I put on my scarf and coat, grab my keys, and hit the road! I literally live half a mile from work, so if it’s pretty outside, I’ll walk, but if the temperature is below 40, it’s into my Jeep for me!

Lunch:
I won’t bore you with work nonsense. At noon, I head home to have lunch. I go in and get the rat Chance out of the bathroom and put him out. I turn on my audiobook and then set up the Keurig to make me a cup of tea. I don’t actually buy the K-Cups for tea, I just use it to heat the right amount of water for a single tea bag. I keep trying different teas, but thus far, my favorite is the Irish Breakfast tea. I learned pretty quickly that teas with fruit flavoring don’t work for me. I don’t like Earl Gray or Lady Gray. English Breakfast is tolerable, but not my favorite. While that is steeping, I prepare whatever it is I’m going to eat. That could be anything from a microwave pizza to leftovers from dinner or a grilled cheese sandwich. I’m not much of a cook and I don’t have much time, so whatever it is, I have to be able to prepare it quickly. I let Chance in and the big dogs out, then sit down to eat. I might surf the web while I do this, but not always. I usually try to check in on social media during lunch and see if there is anything I need to respond to quickly. After I eat, my task may vary. Lately I’ve been trying to organize the house a little at a time, so I usually straighten the living room or take out the trash or put away laundry. If I’m planning on doing the dishes that night, I’ll gather them all up and then set up the sink so they can soak while I’m at work. One day I will have a dishwasher, but until that day, Russell (my husband) and I take turns washing them. It’s one choir I despise, but it must be done. I let the dogs in and make sure they have food and water. I brush my teeth and put Chance back in the bathroom. Keys, coat, shoes, and I’m back to work.

After work:
I don’t really have a routine here. I come home. Now my husband and I get home almost exactly the same time. Whoever comes in first lets Chance out and throws away his pee pad. He used to cook every night because I’m a…well, I won’t say a bad cook because they few things I can make, I make well, I’m just a lazy cook. I don’t like to put a lot of effort in and I don’t like to wait. It was really starting to stress him out, though, so now we take turns. So if it’s my night I’ll start making something and if not, I’ll get in my chair and on the computer. Check social media, emails, and stalk NetGalley and Edelweiss to see if they have added anything I can’t live without. I’ll write post and format stuff on here, trying to make sure I have a post each day. I like to be far ahead, but it’s not usually possible to get a whole week planned out in advance since you can’t do some posts earlier. Waiting on info from tour companies or just seeing what items you procure that you want to showcase. We eat and watch something together then I’ll read or work more on the blog or whatever. At some point, I’ll get up and take a shower or bath and go to bed, but there really is no set rule for that. Just whenever I feel like it.

I’d really like to get into a habit of going to the gym and now that Russell gets home with me, that might be a possibility, but I always come up with excuses. The current one is that I need to get the house in order. The room of doom really needs to be cleaned and organized, as does the big shelves in my living room. The bathroom needs a deep cleaning, as does the kitchen. And I need to put my library back in order and finish unpacking those handful of boxes in my bedroom. Oh, and organize the linen closet! I’m sure once I accomplish all of that, I’ll find a different excuse though.

Those routines, naturally, only apply to weekdays. On weekends or holidays, it all goes out the window. I’m usually up early. If I sleep past 9, it’s a miracle. My dad is a morning person and he used to drag me out of bed at 6 on Saturday’s claiming I was burning daylight if I slept any later. Now, I’m usually awake by 7:30 whether I want to be or not and I get up and waste time until and “acceptable” hour to drag my husband out of bed and we do…whatever. It might be spending the day out exploring Charlotte or a day hiding away from the world bingeing on TV and takeout. Or it might be trying to clean the house. There are no rules on the weekends. It’s anything goes.

What are some of your routines? Let me know in the comments!

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Life Of A Blogger #66

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This week’s topic: Organization

I love organizing things, but it always seems like it falls apart after I get it all straight. I’ll get it all set and pretty and then neither me nor my husband will make the effort to keep it that way. So it goes from need to a mess within a few days. I’m still woefully behind on unpacking. I moved in March of last year and I still have a room full of boxes of things I’m not entirely sure where to put. We call it the room of doom. We keep saying we’ll unpack and organize it, but we haven’t yet. Hell, even my library is a mess right now because my dad is in the process of making me new bookshelves. He has completed one, but I don’t want to reorganize until I get both.

I’m pretty OCD about how my books are organized. I sort hardbacks first and then paperbacks. Within each section, it goes by height. Within the height, it’s author’s name. Within each author, it’s chronologically by publication date. Every time I explain that to people, they give me funny looks. Wouldn’t be easier, they exclaim, to just do it straight alphabetically? It probably would be easier, but it’s not how I do it! That’s also why I always feel the need to buy entire series in paperback or hardback, because if they are in different formats, they won’t be shelved together.

My movies are easier to navigate. I have the Blu-Rays first and then the DVDs. Movies come first, organized alphabetically, and then TV shows. What really bugs me is when a Blu-Ray comes in a special edition box that’s the size of a DVD box. Or when I have series I don’t know how to organize, like the X-Men movies. You’ve got the first three that are fairly simple, but then you have First Class and Days Of Futures Past and then Origins: Wolverine. How do I sort those? I usually put them in order of release, but that looks so wrong to my alphabetical mind. Luckily, I just have the original three and Wolverine on DVD and then the First Class ones on Blu-Ray, so crisis averted. I actually spend WAAAYYYY too much time contemplating how to work that out. Don’t even get me started on the Lilo & Stitch movie series because that is another headache I try not to think about. ::hides::

What about you? Are you a organizational nut? How do you sort your books? Let me know in the comments!

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Life Of A Blogger #65

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This week’s topic: Websites (favorites and most used)

Blogger sites: Right now, this is probably the biggest category. I spend a lot of my internet time working on this blog, so there are many websites I depend on to help with that.

  • WordPress: This blog is hosted by wordpress, so I spend way too much time there. Editing, tweaking, writing, formatting, the whole shebang goes down on WordPress.
  • GoodReads: Yes, this site has been an ass a time or two, but it’s still the best reference I’ve found that keeps all the book’s information on a single page. Trust me, when you’re writing a review, it’s much easier to go to the GoodReads page and grab the release date and publisher info than to grab your physical copy or search other sites for it.
  • Edelweiss: This is the primary site I use to get eARCs. I don’t know why, but I have better odds at getting approved here than I do on NetGalley. I’ve requested the exact same book from both sites before and I’ll get turned down on NetGalley and approved here.
  • NetGalley: I still use NetGalley though! Sometimes they have titles that don’t go up on Edelweiss or that whole “the first 500 readers can read without approval” thing they do. They also sometimes put up older titles. I got Attachments by Rainbow Rowell and The Statistical Probability Of Love At First Sight by Jennifer E Smith on there within the last year.
  • BlogLovin: Both as a blogger and as a blog follower, this site is completely awesome. I push Bloglovin as my main follow source because it’s the easiest thing to sign up for and use from both sides. As a follower, it’s so much easier to scroll through the feed there than to visit the mountains of sites I follow!
  • Google Drive/Docs: I could not live without this as a blogger. I keep my ARC list, my review/posts calendar, and my reading schedule all on there. The spreadsheet document, while not as great as Excel with options, still has everything I need to run a calendar. It’s also a great thing that I can log on anywhere and check it instead of just having a file on my home laptop.

For Life: Then there is everything else!

  • Yahoo: Do I really need to explain email?
  • Facebook: I know everyone has migrated to Twitter, but I’m still on Facebook more. With Twitter, I feel overwhelmed. There is so much always going on!
  • Twitter: But…I am on twitter and I do use it to promote my blog. Also, authors are much more likely to respond on there, even it it’s just a favorite or a retweet. I haven’t even created a Facebook account for this blog yet actually
  • Day Of The Shirt: You know all those sites that have a new pop culture shirt up every day? Ript Apparel and TeeFury and Qwertee? Well, this site shows you all those in one spot, plus more. It’s so much easier to check here than to go to each individual site. I don’t buy many anymore, but I still look at them every day.
  • Amazon: Okay, so let’s get real. I know that Amazon is always the first thing people harp on about when it comes to brick and mortar bookstores closing. I know that Amazon is the devil and I should buy my books elsewhere, so says everyone in the bookish community. But, for me, there is not really another option. I rarely ever buy books new. It’s partly because of the price. I’m a working lower middle class American and my need for food comes, unfortunately, before my need for books. I can rarely justify spending $20 on a hardback when I can spend half that or else if I wait and buy it used. Amazon has a great selection of used books! Now, if I’m going to a book event, I make a point to buy books from the store hosting the event. I think that is only fair, even if I cringe at paying full price, but beyond that, there are very few books out there to make me want to do that. I know that sounds horrible, but really, if you look at my Showcase Sunday posts, I buy A LOT of books. I just happen to spend hours shifting through thrift stores and local used bookstores to pay an affordable price for them.
  • Netflix: I think my husband and I would go nuts without this service. I’m too cheap to pay for TV. Satelite and Cable are both much more per month than my $8 Netflix subscription. The selection isn’t perfect, but it still has a very good amount for $8!

I think that’s everything. I know I didn’t list any book blogs, but I honestly don’t check their sites daily or even weekly. The ones I follow, I do so in Bloglovin or via email and I can usually read the content there. That sounds bad because I know pageviews are important, but it’s still how I do it! What are some of your favorite sites? Let me know in the comments!

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Life Of A Blogger #64

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This week’s topic: What superpower would you choose?

I think as a kid, I wanted all the super-powers. I wanted telekinesis and telepathy and the ability to fly and the ability to freeze time and immortal life and…just all of it. Now, I see all the down falls and the bad things that can be caused by them. I had to think really hard about what power I want. The answer? Super-speed. I want to be like Quick Silver or The Flash. The ability to do every super fast. Hopefully that means I could read super fast as well! I can just imagine my yearly reading totals tripling. Beyond that, just being able to zip around and get so much accomplished in so little time is very appealing.

What about you? What super-power would you want? Let me know in the comments!

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